When I first started my blog, it was more of a journal; a place to be creative, express feelings, reflect, and preserve memories. Though I still think of my blog as a journal, it has become much more than that. I have learned how to write articles and connect with an audience. I have learned that it’s not
just about me. My blog post needs to have something that connects with the reader. It needs to reveal an inner truth, entertain or inform.
Hopefully my writing has improved because of my blogging. I have developed my blogging style; an eclectic mixture of poetry, photos, stories, memories and articles. While my blog will always be mainly a journal for me to express myself, I think my writing has gotten tighter, clearer and cleaner. I am able to write for a fixed word count.
These days, I think about the reader and try to write for them as well. My blog will always be mostly a journal for me to express myself, but it’s much closer to journalism than it was in the early days when it was all about me.
Here is a funny poem I wrote a while back that pokes gentle fun at the narcissistic side of Facebook. For this post, I am rewriting it to fit the blogging as it’s fairly similar.
After all, it’s all about me, me, me!
It’s All About Me!
It’s all about ME, ME, ME!
Come to my blog and you’ll see,
Narcissism rules supreme
Look at me, I’m livin’ the dream!
My cats are the cutest, don’t you agree?
Especially my famous cat, KoBEE,
He is the most adorable cat ever
Everything he does is cute and clever,
I post about everything I think
About what I eat and what I drink,
Every thought or every feeling
Even if it’s not appealing,
I love to post both day and night
Giving my readers such a fright,
I post any time and in any place
Eating up Blogger’s data space,
I like to blog until I drop
Everyone pleads for me to stop,
I’ll never stop blogging, can’t you see?
My blog is all about ME, ME, ME!
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Blogger Bio: Cathy Graham
I love being creative through writing, photography, art, and music.
I especially enjoy writing poetry, short stories, novels and blogging at www.cattitudeandgratitude.blogspot.com
I live in a small village outside Canada’s capitol city, Ottawa with my husband and two young adult sons, Rory and Eric, 21 and 19. We have an Alaskan Malamute named Loup, an orange tabby named Kobie and a calico cat named Daisy. Anyone who knows me on Facebook has seen endless pet photos whether they wanted to or not!
I sing Alto 2 in a women’s choir, play flute in a concert band and in a duo, Tartan and Tea with my harpist friend. I enjoy being part of the Blog-A-Rhythm blogging group. Writing can be lonely so it is wonderful to have the friendship and support of fellow writers. I also enjoy challenges like the A-Z challenge in April to keep me writing regularly.
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I love your posts Cat and this one is no exception. 😉 I especially love your poem re. FB: cute though there is an element of truth to it! 😉 ❤
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Thanks, Elly. I had fun writing that poem. I’m sure we can all relate to it a bit. Heheh!
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There’s gotta be a Queenism in there somewhere.
I blog about me too. I think we all do. We are selfish creatures. It’s about time we embraced that fact and quit apologizing for what is our nature.
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So true, rumpydog. We do try to be modest like good girls, but that narcissism comes out eventually! Thanks for commenting!
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You are still an important part of your blog. 🙂 But yea! the “look at me thing” is a bit over the top with some blogs. 🙂
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Thanks for dropping by, Serins. Yes, some people do go overboard with the narcissism stuff. I try to keep it fairly modest but don’t always succeed. It’s all about ME, ME, ME! Mwhwahahahaha!
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Well said. I think my blog is more of journal of eclectic thoughts, ideas, and yes, some me, but I hope it is also something that resonates with others as well. I loved your poem!
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Thanks so much, Robyn. Appreciate you stopping by. Yes, it’s important to remember the reader and hopefully it will resonate with them.
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I love your poems, Cat! They are simply fun! And yes, our blogs are all about us but I like it the way we have evolved our voice and expression over a period of time 🙂
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Thanks, Shilpa! Appreciate it! Yes, I do think our blogs grow and change over time. Hopefully I’ve gotten better at writing and connecting with the reader than those early days when it was all about ME, ME, ME!
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That poem was cute ans so much fun! It’s all about ME 😀
Loved your post Cat!
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Thanks so much, parulthakur! Appreciate you stopping by.
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Hee hee – cute poem there Cat. I agree blogs should be about oneself, it’s OUR space after all. And if we write from the heart people will certainly connect with us.
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I agree with you, BATB. We have to write for ourselves as well as the reader. Thanks for stopping by.
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I think a blog can be a great way to keep a journal. Many of my posts could probably fit in a journal type category.
Arlee Bird
A to Z Challenge Co-host
Tossing It Out
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Thanks for visiting, Arlee. I do tend to still think of my blog and Facebook as journals that I can look back on and remember how I was feeling at the time and what I was doing. I think people can connect with journal type writing if it isn’t too egocentric. I know I connect with writers not afraid to admit weaknesses or problems in their lives instead of pretending they’re perfect and everything is just wonderful all the time.
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Your blog is always a pleasure to read, Cathy. 🙂 You’re so talented and versatile! Love the funny poem too – definitely has some truth to it.
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Thanks so much, Debbie. It’s great to have you as a writer friend! I really enjoy your blog, too!
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Love visiting new blogs during the #Challenge and especially the blogs of fellow writers. This is my 3rd year to participate and my writing has benefited from the experience. Deciding what the focus of a blog takes some doing. I hope you have an extra minute and come see how you think I’m doing. Cheers!
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Hi Stepheny! Thanks for coming by. This is my 3rd year doing the challenge, too. I’m sure my writing has improved as a result. All the best with the challenge. I will come visit your blog now.
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I started my blog as a journal too but has evolved over the years. I guess our blogs can be about me me me. Love the poem. Nice to know more about you Cat.
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Thanks, Suzy. Appreciate the comments. I always enjoy your blog with its gentle wisdom and your lovely poetry.
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Such a cute poem, Cat. Enjoyed reading more about you. 🙂
*Shantala @ ShanayaTales*
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Thanks so much ShanayaT! Much appreciated!
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Me me is here to stay 🙂 Enjoyed reading your poem. My blog is a collection of my musings too. We all change with time and so does our writing.
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So true that our writing evolves over time, Sulekha. I agree. Thanks for commenting. Much appreciated.
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Cute poem!
My blog started as a journal, but it’s become more focused on books and writing.
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Thanks for dropping by, Sandra. That’s great you found your niche. Books and writing are great topics.
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Cat, this is fabulous. I absolutely love how your describe your blog in verse. 🙂
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Thanks so much, WB! I had fun being narcissistic about it and exaggerating it as much as I could!
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Loved the poem, Cathy ! 🙂 Thanks for sharing ! 🙂
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Love the poem, Cat! I am happy to read about your writing journey through your blogging experience. We all learn as we go along, that’s the best part about writing – the ‘ing’ 🙂
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Loved reading this poem, too, Cat! And, as far as a blog being all about us goes, I think it is the same story all over. We all love to share our life with the world, be it on FB, or through our blogs. It’s the same with me, too. So, the poem you have written, is essentially everyone’s poem, it’s all about us, us, us! 🙂
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I totally agree with you on this! It has improved my writing too! 🙂 And that’s a nice poem! 🙂
Never Let Me Go
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Of course it is about YOU! YOU! YOU! If it wasn’t I wouldn’t be interested — you are always entertaining.
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Ha ha! What a wonderful way to express the beautiful and pure heart in you. It should always be about you, for if you self love, you will be able to spread love!
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